Friday, January 29, 2010

I will give them money to buy APPA

Today I and Aryan have got bad cough and cold. More than him I was cranky :).
Well I wanted to cook something good and I can easily feed him also. Then lot of thoughts I prepared him " Rave Ganji/ Rava Kheer" which would have good things like milk, dry fruits, rava for him. Finally Aryan refused to eat which annoyed me lot. Sometime when such things happen I always remember poor kids who would be always ready to eat. I really thought of telling him how poor kids starve, I don't know why I thought of telling all that to just 3.5 yr old :). Might be It is because I was having cold and getting irritated for small things or it is because I was feeling bad that Aryan has bad cough or I really wanted Aryan to understand the value of food.
Well I started telling him " Aryan look there will be poor kids who are very hungry and they don't have money to buy food, look you have yummy food in front of you and you are not having"
He asked me " Mummy why those poor kids will not ask their mummy to give mum mum(food) for them ?".
I told " Aryan their mummy also doesn't have lot of money to buy food for them".
Aryan immediately said “Mummy when I grow big , I will have one purse and I will have money in that purse and I will give money to them to buy mum mum(food) " . Within fraction of second all my anger on him vanished. I really felt so much touched on his thought. Soon after I wanted to tell him that this weekend we have planned to visit Orphanage. I just told him “Aryan this Sunday we will go to meet some kids, who will stay together and they don't have Appa and mummy “. Aryan thought for a while and said to me “Mummy I will give them money to buy appa and mummy”
I was really stunned and overwhelmed with joy. What a kind and lovely heart my baby has got.
I wish and pray that he should retain this pure heart thought out his life.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

What is your full name?

I asked "Aryan what is your name?" . He was bit surprised by sudden funny question . But still he answered " Aryan" . Another question from me was " Aryan what is your mother name?". With his cute cunning smile said " Mubbakka " LOL . Mubbakka means dumb or tube light . Since from college Prasad calls me by this name.This name has become so famous that my close friends have forgot my name . When they mail me or call me, they start with " Mabbakka ". And also I have completely forgot about the real meaning of this name.More funny was when Aryan told his teacher that his mother name is "Mubbakka" in front of me and Prasad . Well let me continue with above Q & A session with Aryan. I said to him " No your mother name is Renuka, OK " . Then Aryan said " Ok".
To confirm whether he understood what I want him to tell , I again asked " What is your mother name?" . He said " Nenuka ". So cute :) . You know hearing your name from your kids feels really different and it is just real good feeling that you will feel your name is really sweet :)

Next Question was " Aryan what is your Full Name ". He answered " Aryan " . I wanted to teach him full name , so I said " Aryan your full name is Aryan Prasad Inchal" . He said "OK" . To confirm I asked again " Aryan what is your full name?" . His answer was " ARYAN APPA INCHAL"

Since then I am trying to teach him his full name and all the time I am getting to hear " ARYAN APPA INCHAL"

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Give me some sunshine, give me some rain, Give me another chance I wanna grow up once again

Now days Aryan is humming this song all the time. Might be because we played this song in whole ooty trip or he knows that mommy and appa simply loves this song so much, so he wants to learn it :).
When he says “Give me another chance, I wanna grow up once again”. It is so cute. Prasad told him yesterday that you already have chance baby, no need to ask one more chance :)"
Yes I thought even I don’t need to ask one more chance to grow up , I have Aryan , as he grows up I can see myself in him again. I loved this movie " 3 idiots" . It feels it is our story, yes it ais.
Koshy, basya, nadeem, umesh, Ravi, Anupama, Shailaja, Archu and many more our college friends, once shared the same chemistry what 3 idiots have shared in movie. Koshy and basya could not wait till we come back from trip to discuss about this movie.
We don't have regret that we didn't enjoy our college days, we don't have regret that we didn't score good marks (basya exceptional), and we DONT NEED ANOTHER CHANCE TO enjoy our college days, as we have lived our college life fully 100/100 :).
Many scenes from movie reminded us college days. I wonder how movie writer knows about our college stories. How did he pen the things what we did in college. Eating in unknown marriage party (thank god, we never caught by anyone :)). I heard from Koshy and Prasad that they even went for some unknown Grihapravesh (house warming) party also, same as keeping empty envelop in pocket and showing half envelop above the pocket. What a "Bhanda Dhairya"? In Grihapravesh (house warming) party very less people will be there, there was high chance of getting caught: D.
and another story prasad recently told me. We girls never aware of this. And these guys kept it secret, even Prasad being my boyfriend never told about this. What a friendship. Generally I fight for so many silly things, but I felt happy when he told that this was top secret among boys and he has to keep it up.
Well that top secret was stealing question papers from Professor Cabin. Wow we girls always wondered how these guys score so good marks though they never study and always busy with some nonsense things in college.
There are some stories which I can’t pen it here :). If you are so curious and want to know about them koshy is best person to narrate those stories ;).
One of the best story was our HOD caught Prasad when he was trying to give me copy chit: D.
When he asked " Prasad what are you trying to do? “. Prasad said “I don’t have big paper, so I am practicing C programs in small letters." Lol. When HOD looked at paper, there were mustard size letters at corner of paper Lol. HOD asked him to meet in cabin later :D.
Other side I was struggling to write C program in exam.I had practiced all the C assignments except one and unfortunately I got that one. I knew I can never write that program and I didnt know that Prasad was trying to give me chit for that program.
Finally I got copy chit from someone and I wrote that and showed up to HOD as he was our internal Examiner. HOD gave weird look and I felt that he wanted to ask “you were struggling to write this program from past 2 hr, how come you got it now? ". He didn’t ask that, He said "OK". I was really not feeling good and I was nervous also as it was copied. I came out of hall, I don’t know what I thought, why I thought that. I went back inside. HOD and external examiner were sitting inside the cabin. I told “Sir that program I copied, it is not written by me" . External Examiner said with horrified voice “What?” I repeated again and started crying ( Girls use this as last weapon when nothing is left). I even said to them " If you want to flunk me that exam , you can ". I came out and told to Prasad. He didn’t utter single word about his tension that he has been caught by HOD. Well when result came out, I was sure that C lab would have gone. But to my surprise I did pass with 36 Marks. Though I was very happy but somewhere my heart was trying to make me guilty saying that those are not my marks :).
Another one was all girls were sitting in College bus and driver was not there since there was plenty of time for bus to leave. These guys were standing little bit far from bus. All of the sudden bus started moving by it. And our friend Nadeem , who never miss such chance to show his heroism to girls, ran towards bus to stop it. All boys were so jealous that unnecessarily Nadeem will become hero in front of girls. He was a one feet distance from bus and about to get into bus, BUS STOPPED BY ITSELF. LOL ..All started laughing like anything. Boys were happy for it :).
What a day are those were , so carefree, irresponsible, and immature. Everything we had except money. We had time, friends, josh . But we never lost any chance to enjoy. Without our knowledge I and Prasad started liking each other. Love started growing up and taking place in our hearts and life. We never realized when and how it all started . We never realized that when we became lovers from best friends. And those were the best moments of life and we both always try to keep those memories fresh.

God seriously give me another chance to grow up once again :).
I want to have parties and hang out with my friends again,
I want to do mass bunk and go for movie with friends again :).
I want to study whole night and get only passing marks again ;),
I want to run here and there last minute to copy/Xerox the notes taken by studious students ;).
I want to take 10 print of same program for me and my friends again for the last minute submission . Again thanks to those studious student for dedicating their life for only studies and writing those programs, otherwise how would we have enjoyed and had great program to copy and submit last minute.
I want to feel again that there is lot of time to study for exam and plan days keeping lot of buffer to revise whole subject twice. And again I never want to follow that plan and realize soon that only 2 days left and I have not started to study . In 2 days I want to plan again to see that which units are important to pass ;) , at least only pass.
I want to do selective units study again hoping that at least pass marks questions comes from that unit.
I want to do combined study to talk everything except study and drink tea whole night.
I want to talk whole night about college, boys and other immature things with my hostel girls again. I want to fight with my best friend again.
I want to feel world is mine again . Please GOD give me another chance :).

This post is dedicated to all my college friends . LOVE YOU ALL.

Friday, January 1, 2010

can I play with moon ( chanda mama)

Hey guys I am here with another beautiful childhood thought. Childhood and moon always have some connection. All of us surely atleast once would have thought holding moon, going on moon and imagining that dark spot on moon as house, tree, a lady sitting under tree. Right ?

Well thanks to my Mari ...aru took me back to those memories childhood memories.
It is always good feel to imagine moon as a person and that too Mama ( uncle) right?
I hate to learn moon as planet. He is good in our childhood memory as a friend.
I always used to think that chanda mama is my best friend and he comes where ever I go. Many a times I fought with my galli friends that chandamama only moves when I move. I used to say to them "ok you sit here and now watch , I will show you when I run and walk he moves " . And they all used to sit on big bench in front of my neighbour's house watching me run and scream " Hey! look he is moving with me". And back they used to scream " No he is here, not moving at all". I used to get frustrated and feel how can I tell them and show them. lol..

Let me tell you why all of sudden these thoughts came back to my mind. We were returning back from Mysore-ooty trip. It was full moon day and we were driving back in our old Maruti 800. I know prasad gets angry when I say his car old , crap etc. lol
Anyway it is his darling. Well Aryan saw big moon and asked " How should I go and catch moon?" .Then I wanted to know what all things are running in his mind. I asked " tell me how you catch moon?". He said " mommy I will become spiderman and fly up and catch it". I was curious and asked " then..?" . Then he said " Moon will come down to play with me. " So cute right? . He again thought for second and he said with sad face" But it will fly again back?". I didnt want to put any of my thoughts because i really wanted to know what is he really thinking . He said" ok I like twinkle star than moon". I asked why?
He said "they will come down and I will put them on my cycle back seat and I will ride the cycle".
He paused and said " But they will fall down from my cycle..ok I will tie them"
So sweet imagination. Why we stopped imagining all these now. Only because we have got other things to think and break our head, like car loans, house loans, jobs and projects , layoff ...
I wish I should not have grown up .